Friends or Fuck Buddies

For the last week or so People have been telling me that I am very very flirtatious. AM I? I dont mind telling someone that I think that they are attractive or sending a smile on 360. I believe in giving people compliments. I look at people, but never do I go up and be trying to holla at people.
What does Im looking for friendship mean in this day and age? I guess not a darn thing and I got 2 scenarios to prove it means nothing. First instance, it is this guy at my church who is always I guess calling himself flirting with me. Non the less I aint even remotely interested in him and I called myself being nice by picking him for church cause he needed rides. Later I found out he is capable of catching the bus and he probably using the rides to get to see me or whatever. Over the last 3 weeks or so his behavior has gotten out of control. Talking about not caring that I got a man. He has met him on several occassions and he still dont care. I get text messages from him talking about what are you wearing? 0r when can I come over to you house? All texts usually end or start with the word SEXY? WTF, AM I sexy or is he trying to suduece me. And what are you going to do with me sexually? NOTHING AT ALL! I have learned to ignore his texts and stop picking him up for church, its just that simple. Or I'll start shooting daggers at him.
Then for friends purposes only, I created an a4a acct to find a friend I lost contact with and I found him finally. But in my search for him, people hit me up asking me how big am I? What do I look like? When were going to have sex? I find it very inappropriate to continuously try and push yourself on someone when they have made it clear that they are not interested in sex but friendship. Not only did I mention several times that I got a man. It dont matter. Is it either because they are Fucking stupid or they dont care. The profile is blank with nothing on it about setting up on something. I have no picture or no sexual position and still I get hit up by people all the time. Then what really blows me is the ones who say they top when they hit me up and then I be like not looking for anything but I am a top. Then they magically term into a verse or bottom. WTF? I have since learned how to click the ignore/block button for the stupid cunts that dont know how to read Big BOLD Black Lettering.