Randomness and Sex

Yesterday I reached my 2 year mark at my company and I was happy to say to say I survived micro-managing, attitudes, spur of the moment things, and Director mood regulations and such. LOL.. I didnt find out if I had the job or not but I was told I would find out either way.
My Allergies are giving me hell! Damn, I didnt know you got them in january and february.
I got my new TV yesterday and its gone go back to the store within 14 days. LOL
Well I was speaking to my friend in California yesterday and we talked about my my most FAVORITE subject which is SEX. LOL! He and his lover of 4 years have many problems with their sex life. My guy states his LOVER uses sex as a bargaining tool. WTF??? How do you bargain sex? Thats purely absurd! I told him that more than likely his lover is CHEATING and when he has been intimate with whoever he is cheating with, thats why he denies him sex? Is it morally right to deny your partner sex all the time? I mean I would be pissed off if a LOVER of mine did it to me because thats purely BULLSHIT. I wouldnt get in a relationship willingly knowing that if I wanted to have sex that I would have to wait until maybe a week later? One of the 5 main reasons with sex being 3 on the priority list is SEX and having the security of knowing that you are intimately involved with just that ONE person. So I was talking to him this morning and he told me that his LOVER said that they could only have sex Thurs-Sunday and was not willing to negotiate the days.. WTF?? I thought, first he denies sex and then he wants to put a cap on the number and days you can make love? SO what if he doesnt feel like it on those days? What does it sound like to you? I began to question about the other supports that are GIVEN? NONE, so you know what I told him? I SAID DROP HIM! You be lonely by yourself! SO 360 what advice can you give my friend?